Circumstances

Sadoo commented on "Worth living" by saying... "but ma'am u ought to see that not only ur family or friends make life worth...its the circumstances..."
i think what he means is that the circumstances that we face in daily life shape us to be what we are. agreed sadoo, but doesn't family or friends or any kind of support just instantly make the situation infinitely better?
i think it does.
circumstances show us what all we should be prepared to handle in life.
family and friends show us how we can handle them.
circumstances do harden us, and while trying to wriggle out of them, we do soften up.
but the fact remains that if you have someone to hold your hand and help you wriggle out, or push you from behind with all their strenght and a bit more, you yourself feel like wriggling harder. you feel like fighting harder. if not for yourself, then for that person...you feel like winning againt the situation. that person can be your mom, dad, sister, best friend, good friend, friend..sometimes it can even be somebody who you never ever thought (even in your wildest dreams) would stand by you. and it's a wonderful feeling just to know that someone somewhere is there.
for you.
by you.
with you.
so let the circumstance harden you. but also let the family or the friend support you. it's not so bad to be dependant on someone. for sometime you can let the other person take care of your problems. for sometime you can take a break. then after sometime, you can get up and start wriggling again.
and yeah... don't let go of friends so easily... trust me they are the hardest things to replace in life.

untill next time...